Life, misfortunes, isolation, abandonment, poverty, are battlefields which have their heroes; obscure heroes, sometimes, greater than the illustrious heroes.--Victor Hugo (Les Miserables)
I may come across as a totally insensitive, selfish, attention-hungry, blood-sucking vampire to many or all of you. It is only because I am one.
When I was young boy, my mama used to tell me, “Always remember this, son, it is the crying baby that gets the milk!” I have remembered that well. And milk is something I cannot do without. So I cry. As much and as loudly as I can. Which brings us to the point of this little post of mine.
I was not like this before.
I was like you. Dignified, quiet, and hardworking. Committed to myself and my brethren's welfare. I believed 'to earn one's daily bread by the sweat on one's brow' was the right thing to do. I toiled without complaints, believed in the kindness of my brothers and sisters, and waited for the good to come knocking on my door.
Day after day, night after night, I waited. Just like you do. But nothing happened. The world moved on. Without as much as a 'thank you.' If it was a good night's sleep that was to be my only blessing, that didn't come through either. The tin roofs over my head leaked in the rains, and in the summers, were too hot to sleep under. If my body was betrayed, my soul didn't feel too blessed either.
I was invisible to the world then. As you are today. To be silent was to be ignored, sidelined, walked-over, mistreated, and forgotten. To be silent was to cease existing. To be silent was to accept the ignominy of being considered being dead while still living.
That is when I realised my mama was right. And I decided never to be silent again. Now I cry. And I get fed. More than my fair share. Everything is wonderful in my world now. But then I see you. I see you do exactly what I used to do once upon a time. Believe in the kindness of your brothers and sisters. Toil till the sun goes down and wonder why nobody invites you home when you have to sleep under your leaking tin roof. Maybe your mama didn't tell you the secret that mine did. You got to cry if you need milk.
So cry.
This world is as much your's as it is mine. Do not let any one tell you otherwise. You have toiled for the whole year here and what have you got to show for it? Nothing? The hours at the keyboard, pouring out your heart and mind... the hours spent on other bloggers space trying to understand, the commitment, the sincerity, the earnest comments you left behind, and at the end of it all...
Inhale deeply, fill your lungs with as much ammunition as you can, and cry. Let the world see what you have got. Don't wait for other's kindness or pity. Pry it out of the miserly-fists that deny you your rights.
What is your's by right is not to be accepted as alms. It is not for someone to hand it over. It is your's to take. There's pride in that conquest. Do not hesitate. Do not wait. Come forward and say, “This is me. And this is mine.”
Even if it is a mention as a 'Blogging Individual' in the year that is about to pass us by. Forever.
I salute you, my invisible friends. Let's not remain invisible anymore. For history is not made of silence.
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Dear Kala, I am glad for your children. and I am really happy that your advice is working for them. It is good to see you here. :-))
A very happy and peaceful new year to you and your family, my friend.
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Hello Bigmojo
A very happy new Year.
I do not approve of any of your statements in this particular post. Anyway if that is your way of
getting things done and if the crying concept works our for you please continue.
As a mother I have always taught my children, "Never cry. if you wait and behave you will
get one extra. You will get noticed if you prove your prowess in an extraordinary manner"
Iam proud to say that they never cry but are doing well.
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shamoli, ah... i see... but IF you are saying that by doing so my mother gave the world a nuisance maker, I will be pretty much offended..
and you know, I am not the type to sit quitely and go nothing about it..:-)))
Good to see you here..:-))
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“Always remember this, son, it is the crying baby that gets the milk!”
I mean to say your mother taught you the value of creating nuisance in this bad, old world.
Yes, I do agree crying is effective. Silence & patience do not work ----------------.
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sneha, you cannot say that. those are copyrighted comments. Exclusively meant to be used by poetbittersweet. LOL
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taureandude, remember the day 'john galt' walks out of the factory to be never seen again? if you understand the significance of that day, you will understand what I'm saying here. But, somehow, I am not sure you do.. or maybe you still are to. Good luck!
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shamoli, long time no see... and when you come back, look how you did!!! with a big bang and sisterly advice... by the way, what does it mean? sorry, couldn't make out.
A very happy and peaceful happy new year to you too. :-))
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Nice post.
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hi there
a very inspiring post. N as i am reading Atlas Shrugged now, i couldnt help drawing parallels in ur post and the philosophy in dat book.
i started blogging over 3 yrs back, and am blogging on Sulekha since the last one year, and at times i do feel "was the time n effort spent on ideating, composing the post was worth it??" but then i guess i have myself to blame, as mebbe i mustnt have marketed my blog well. but now its getting to me:d
it goes without sayin that every new post gives me immense satisfaction, to all of us, cos that is something thats a product of YOUR mind, that is something u have created. what was a blank document a coupla hours ago, is now a full blown post. but i guess ill have to do much more after i have clicked on the Publish button:D n i hope to do it in the coming year.
so i guess ill jus sign off here with an aim of gettin into the top 500 bloggers (atlest:P)
take care
ciao
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I call this "nuisance value".

It works every where, in your office, home, ---------- just try it, you get an immediate result. Then you get addicted to it. Your natural, original behaviour changes & you enjoy all the attention.
Loved The Blog.
A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR 2008!
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